Let's take a look at some of the more serious signs and effects of workaholism.
Workaholism is a thief. Here are a few of the things that workaholism can rob from us.
Workaholism steals your mind
You can rarely think about anything else or concentrate on something else beside work. The focus of your mind is on problems and issues at work. You may be good at problem solving on the job, while problems in the rest of your life are ignored and continue to mount.
A clear sign of work stealing your mind is something I call "Sunday Night Syndrome", which is becoming anxious about and dreading work before the weekend is even over.
Workaholism steals your presence
Work keeps you away from those you love and those who love you. You are usually not there and miss out on important events, whether it's as simple as dinner or as big as a birthday party.
Consider these line from the song "Cats in the Cradle" by singer-song writer Harry Chapin: "A child arrived just the other day. He came to the world in the usual way. But there were planes to catch and bills to pay. He learned to walk while I was away." If this sound painfully familiar, you might be a workaholic.
Even when you are at home, you are only present physically. Your mind and heart are at work.
Workaholism steals your identity
The definition of who you are is completely organized around your job. As a result, so is your self esteem, self confidence, etc.
You are what you do.
Workaholism steals your significance
Your meaning in life comes only from your job. This blocks any connection to family, friend, faith, or anything else greater than yourself.
Workaholism steals your health
Stress induced illnesses, ulcers, headaches, heart attacks, panic attacks. Sounds like a nice menu from which to choose, doesn't it?
Workaholism steals your priorities
While you may say something different, your choices and actions say that work is the most important thing in your life. Your gravestone will read "He/she was a great worker" not "He/she was a great dad/mom and husband/mom and friend." Workaholism steals your energy
Most if not all energy is spent at work. All the other people and important areas of our life get only the crumbs.
Visit secretsofgreatrelationships.com for tips and tools for creating and growing a great relationship. You can also subscribe to our f*r*e*e 10 day e-program on how to enrich your relationship today, from relationship coach and expert Jeff Herring.
efficient cleaning crew Northbrook ..Life can offer us many challenges having to do with... Read More
A grandfather, whose grandson came to him angry at a... Read More
What good is Personal or Business Success...if your Health is... Read More
If you suffer from insomnia of any kind, the chances... Read More
If you live in the early part of the twenty-first... Read More
What is Stress?Stress may be defined as the three-way relationship... Read More
In a recent CMA survey of 2251 physicians, over 45%... Read More
One of the dumbest things I have ever done is... Read More
Seventy-five percent of all our problems ? both emotional and... Read More
Do you have the desire for a stress free life?... Read More
I have yet to see a scientist talk about the... Read More
I love a good story and I know I'm not... Read More
Every day we are faced with a situation where our... Read More
1. 5-minute rule. How many times do we say, "This... Read More
Probably the least appreciated form of stress is college stress.... Read More
On a beautiful summer day years ago, I went water... Read More
In the fast-paced world that we live in today, it... Read More
There are many kinds of daily grinds. In the U.S.... Read More
"Let your mind be quiet, realizing the beauty of the... Read More
In a hectic world, it's all too easy to reach... Read More
Success in recovery, or rather, staying in recovery, is dependent... Read More
Are you feeling stressed out? Too many things to do,... Read More
Make stress less of an issue for you in your... Read More
Do you feel stress at work? Do you carry your... Read More
Several studies, including one of medical students around exam time,... Read More
cleaning lady near Wilmette ..Statistics show that all of us experience stress at one... Read More
I was a psychotherapist for... Read More
In these times when companies are constantly down-sizing and right-sizing... Read More
A while back, I was in a minor fender-bender accident,... Read More
Stress is more than just unpleasant. It's dangerous. Try these... Read More
Syndicated columnist Dale Dauten recently wrote, "One of life's great... Read More
Don't wait to have a life-threatening disease to learn what... Read More
It has long been suggested that "music soothes the savage... Read More
Did you know that taking a short trip, such as... Read More
Many of my readers write to me about the tensions... Read More
Writing down our thoughts and feelings, as in keeping a... Read More
Are you a person who has a keen imagination, a... Read More
Do you get out of your car with a queasy... Read More
A little stress is good for us until it becomes... Read More
"One day I'm a mother, One day I'm a lover,... Read More
Health Impacts of StressStress is a funny concept, try to... Read More
An excellent stress reducer can be something as simple as... Read More
Q. I've been told that I need to learn from... Read More
Matthew 11:28 Come unto me, all ye that labour... Read More
"Do you want to be a lump of coal or... Read More
Meditation seems to have arrived in the mainstream of late,... Read More
You can learn a lot by watching children playing. There... Read More
Positive self-esteem is very important for our general health and... Read More
We've all experienced it-computerized technology that doesn't function properly. PCs... Read More
Insomnia is usually the result of the modern way of... Read More
Stress Management |