I confess, I love westerns. There is nothing like those "Showdown" scenes where the film is shot from down low and you see those boots moving slowly, step by step until they come to a stop just 100 feet from the other guy. Tumble weed blows by. The wind stirs the dust. The camera moves up and you see fingers twitching, getting ready to draw. You know that it is only a few moments until the good guy lets the bad guy have it and he'll be on his way to saving the day and setting the town free again. All that stands in his way is this one obstacle. But that obstacle must be put away.
What would you do in that situation? Would you save the day and proceed to victory, or would you run and hide? Running and hiding is tempting when you see the guy all dressed in black, symbolizing your impending doom!
Isn't that what happens regularly though? Our journey to success always has these "Showdowns" that we have to go through if we are going to get there. There are always going to be "bad guys" we have to get through.
Let's take a look at a few:
Fear. Fear is the pre-imminent "bad guy." He keeps millions of people from success. Here is a secret: There are times when I am stretching myself to achieve all that I can, when I am taking huge risks, that I wake up in the middle of the night and I am so scared I can't sleep! Fear will tell you anything to keep you from even trying! But do you know what takes care of fear? Persistence. You see, everybody has fear. The most successful people I know have fear. But they work through it rather than give up! To be successful you have to have and win that showdown with fear.
Crowd mentality. I have become increasingly aware of this in recent years. The crowd is loud. They are tenacious in letting you know that they expect you to do things their way or something is just not right. You know, it is the relative who calls you a dreamer. It is the naysayers. They want you to do what is normal. Well friend, nobody ever got successful doing what the crowd does. The crowd is average, that's why they're the crowd! To be successful you have to have that showdown with the calling of the crowd. Hear their voices screaming, "Don't do that. Be like us," and win the showdown.
Doubt. Success usually takes a while. It rarely comes overnight. And after some time, you will begin to doubt. "Am I dreaming too big?" "Did I take a dumb risk?" "Should I quit and go back to something safe?" Rest assured, it will come. But this is when your vision must be string and you must keep going. Stick with the dream. Don't give up! Overcome your doubt and the doubts of others! To be successful you must have that showdown with doubt and win!
Yes, there will be many showdowns. The above are but a few, though they are the major ones. Maybe you are experiencing them even now. Your time has come. The old western music is playing. Your foe dressed in black grins that devilish grin. He thinks you can't do it. But have your showdown. Win. Then ride off into the sunset!
About The Author:
Chris Widener is a popular speaker and writer as well as the President of Made for Success, a company helping individuals and organizations turn their potential into performance, succeed in every area of their lives and achieve their dreams.
To see Chris "live" at the upcoming Jim Rohn Weekend Event as he speaks on the subject of Secrets of Influence go to http://chris-widener.inspiresyou.com/ or call 800-929-0434.
professional maid services Deerfield ..The Chicago Times once printed that Henry Ford was an... Read More
"The mind grows by what it feeds on." J.... Read More
There are twelve necessary elements involved in achieving success:1. Spend... Read More
He was pencil thin and walked with a limp. A... Read More
This past Memorial Day weekend I decided to revisit my... Read More
The TRUE BMI of SUCCESS (B)e a (M)illionaire (I)ndexWhy am... Read More
"Enthusiasm is worth any pot of cream ever offered."Can you... Read More
I would like to use this medium to introduce my... Read More
I succeeded. I achieved my goal. I am successful. I... Read More
Jim Rohn, noted leader and speaker in the personal development... Read More
I've long been a student of those who have achieved... Read More
With three kids, a business, a husband with a business,... Read More
"If you can tell the world who you are and... Read More
Champions expect pain, endure pain, and never complain. ---UnknownAfter so... Read More
What is a champion really? Sure, all success oriented people... Read More
You must play by the rules. Everything has rules. You... Read More
What does success look like to you? Our culture often... Read More
There are two things that will determine your success or... Read More
"Things might have been worse"This is the most powerful, dynamic,... Read More
Lots of people network but few reap the rewards of... Read More
The ability to achieve our enormous untapped potential is directly... Read More
Routinely, I rise out of bed before the birds, and... Read More
An effective self- concept generates the desire to strive for... Read More
Many people talk or write about the science of success... Read More
All of us could work on our skills in influencing... Read More
quick home cleaning Lake Forest ..It's not new news. It's not some ethereal theory. It's... Read More
Napoleon Hill coined the concept of the mastermind alliance in... Read More
Many years ago, forty to be exact, I started my... Read More
The Winner's Walk is a key strategy in the sport... Read More
Overnight success seems to be happening to a lot of... Read More
Recently, I have been riveted by the amazing reality show... Read More
Two Immigrants Live The American DreamSome may call it a... Read More
I remember, about 35 years ago, reading two books by... Read More
Hello again! I have some more useful tips you can... Read More
Persistence is the foundation of success. Although there are many... Read More
1. Believe in yourself and what it is you do.... Read More
How do we define success? Webster's dictionary defines success as... Read More
Are you:- feeling unfulfilled and dissatisfied with your life?- ready... Read More
e-Learning is doubling yearly. Classes, e-courses, e-books on how-to and... Read More
I received an advanced copy of a book called How... Read More
Here are a few suggestions that I try to put... Read More
Hi, Jim Rohn here. This month we focus on accelerating... Read More
Commit yourself to spending time only with people who are... Read More
Please repeat these four words out loud: "Maximum Impact....Minimal Touch"... Read More
Sometimes it is better to just get on with doing... Read More
After 13 years of being married to the same woman... Read More
Knowing when to disconnect, shut it off, unplug, or walk... Read More
Wealth is more than money. It's abundance, or as the... Read More
So you want to be successful (whatever that means to... Read More
Something's missing! As a Hispanic in this great country, I... Read More
Success |