Today we have more stress in our lives than ever before ? good stress, bad stress, red stress, blue stress (my little ode to Dr. Seuss). No matter what kind of stress it is, a real crisis or an imagined one, stress is incredibly harmful to our body, mind and soul.
Here are my favourite self-care habits for dealing with stress:
1. Get in the habit of noticing.
Take an inventory of all the things that just don't feel right in your life or that you know are causing you stress. For example, when you approach certain people, places or situations do you feel more stress and tension? Once you have your list in place, look at what you can change yourself, and do it. You can also use this list to predict stressful situations before they occur.
2. Get in the habit of asking for help.
For what you can't change yourself, you need a team. Build a team of experts to handle your list. A coach, at the top of the list, will help with the big picture and will keep you honest about your efforts. Other team members might be a family doctor who listens to you, a financial planner, a massage therapist and an exercise partner.
3. Get in the habit of bouncing back.
Think of Plan A as your basic self-care plan while stress is under control. Now imagine something happens and you are under stress. Instead of abandoning all self-care because you can't do it all, have a Plan B ready beforehand.
4. Get in the habit of relaxing.
If you practice relaxation techniques (breathing, meditation, imagery, music) every day, then when stressful situations come up you'll have the tools at your fingertips.
5. Get in the habit of gratitude.
Our attitude comes from our emotions and our emotions come from our thoughts. Thinking about what we're grateful for and what we're good at can keep things positive. It's not about shying away from what's challenging you ? it's about approaching life from a place of strength and not as a victim.
6. Get in the habit of creating.
Experiment with a new recipe in the kitchen, write a poem, bang a drum, do a craft, take a dance class or do something else that feels creative to you.
7. Get in the habit of putting your stuff away.
Physical clutter can really impact on mental, emotional and physical health. Get rid of things that don't make you happy when you look at them. Organize your stuff. Find a place for everything and keep it there.
8. Get in the habit of breathing.
This is the simplest and quickest way to relax yourself in a stressful situation. The minute you focus on your breathing it automatically gets slower and deeper.
9. Get in the habit of daydreaming.
Take yourself away on an imaginary holiday. Just close your eyes and go! Picture somewhere you've been or somewhere you've dreamed of.
10. Get in the habit of giggling.
Laugh out loud every day.
Don't let your stress get the better of you! Which one of these strategies can you apply this week to manage your stress?
? Copyright 2005, Genuine Coaching Services. All rights reserved.
Linda Dessau, the Self-Care Coach, is the author of "The Everyday Self-Care Workbook". To find out more about the book, or to receive her free monthly newsletter, "Genuine Self-Care", visit http://www.genuinecoaching.com/resources.html.
spotless home service Bannockburn ...The number one most popular issue that users of a... Read More
As small business owners, we often take on more than... Read More
Have you ever noticed how we keep falling into the... Read More
I hope by reading this article you will see the... Read More
Positive self-esteem is very important for our general health and... Read More
26 ways to minimize and manage the unhealthy effects of... Read More
Picture the following scene:It's Sunday evening, the weekend is winding... Read More
Whether we are at work, traveling, or at home, we've... Read More
Living in our world today can be very stressful. While... Read More
Marshal John Kruger acted by Arnold Schwarzenegger (who else) in... Read More
Of all the forms of stress in today's world, computer... Read More
Did you know that more than half of our adult... Read More
Shit happens. I know this to be a fact, because... Read More
When was the last time that you truly took a... Read More
Get at least 15 minutes of sunshine daily.Daily Exercise -... Read More
Everybody deals with fear and anxiety, however some people have... Read More
We've all been there, right? We find ourselves living with... Read More
Conceptualizing stress: Stress often has a negative connotation. Failure, illnesses,... Read More
There are many kinds of daily grinds. In the U.S.... Read More
Stress Vs PressureStress is something we all have, it's not... Read More
More than two-thirds of visits to doctors' surgeries are for... Read More
Learn to have healthy relationships:This subject could fill an entire... Read More
Author and speaker H. Stephen Glenn has said,"In terms of... Read More
Stress management is a hot topic; stress-related illness and suffering... Read More
Stress is often seen as being unhealthy, but for some... Read More
tidy up service Deerfield ...Meditation seems to have arrived in the mainstream of late,... Read More
STRESS & TIME MANAGEMENT: Stress is either the source or... Read More
Comedian George Carlin once remarked, "Have your ever noticed? Anyone... Read More
Q: We recently had someone come to our company to... Read More
Workers across America will tell you that stresslevels are increasing.... Read More
Q. I've been told that I need to learn from... Read More
Panic.Heart racing. Palms sweating. Breathing rapid and shallow. Mouth dry.... Read More
Adversity is an unavoidable part of life. Death of a... Read More
The Mask of "I've Got It All Together"It's so easy... Read More
Use these simple tips to minimize stress in your day... Read More
Seems like more and more they are all around us.... Read More
Question 1"How do I get more time to play?"Answer: Schedule... Read More
We are not designed for long term stress.It causes us... Read More
Stress relief and managementRecognizing stress symptoms can be a positive... Read More
1) Create the life you desireTwo of our most underdeveloped... Read More
CHICAGO - According to a recent article in the September... Read More
It is very true that, unfortunately, many people look to... Read More
Where does stress really come from? Is there any simple... Read More
If there was a way of relaxing quickly and easily... Read More
All people experience stress and anxiety in one form or... Read More
Do you have stress in your life?......I know you answered... Read More
The future is nothing but a fantasy or a daydream,... Read More
I once worked with a woman whose zest,joy and enthusiasm... Read More
Stress. The word brings to mind many different definitions doesn't... Read More
Do you feel stress at work? Do you carry your... Read More
Stress Management |