Measure twice, cut once
Just as in carpentry, making sure that your decisions are based on sound data is essential to reaching your goals. Ensure that you know precisely what is going to be required to make your dreams come true, and that you meet these criteria and are capable of the sustained effort necessary. For some goals, such as being a pitcher for the New York Yankees, a certain set of basic skills and physical attributes are non-negotiable. Making sure that you possess these skills and attributes before you put your house in hock to pay for a Major League baseball camp is only common sense. If you're unsure whether or not you have what it takes, ask someone who does know - but be choosy about who you ask. If you want advice about making the Major League, ask someone with that sort of inside info - a scouting-level college baseball coach, a sports agent, a sports journalist, etc. Don't ask cousin Bob just because he watches the game all the time and knows everyone's stats. Sure, he might be able to give you an unbiased viewpoint, but it is unlikely. Family baggage (he thinks you're the greatest thing since chipped beef, or he's still smarting over the fact that you ended up with "his" girl) can seriously impair his outlook. Friends and family members are usually the worst options for fair and objective evaluations, even if they are professionals in whatever field holds your interest. Only in the rarest of cases can someone be a professional first and a family member second - after all, they've probably been your (cousin, friend, etc) for much longer than they've been at their job.
That said, once you've double-checked the time, money and commitment necessary, and you're still sure you have what it takes - go for it!
(c) Soni Pitts
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Soni Pitts is the Chief Visionary Butt-Kicker of sonipitts.com. She specializes in helping others reclaim "soul proprietorship" in their lives and to begin living the life their Creator always intended for them.
She is the author of the free e-book "50 Ways To Reach Your Goals" and over 100 self-help and inspirational articles, as well as other products and resources designed to facilitate this process of personal growth and spiritual development.
best cleaning company Highland Park ..There is a difference but what constitutes a life... Read More
We've all been driving down the road and seen those... Read More
What do you need to have for a successful business?... Read More
The purpose of man is in action not thought -... Read More
How do you land your dream job, win... Read More
Challenges posed by recent economic and market shifts, though predicted... Read More
Personal power is an INSIDE JOB. It doesn't mean getting... Read More
-- The One Pager Shortcut Series --What are the sharpest... Read More
Have you ever had this feeling? You're standing in front... Read More
All work and no play makes Johnny a dull boy... Read More
What is success? As author and speaker Earl Nightingale said,... Read More
The problem with writing about success is that almost everything... Read More
Abundance is intangible, spiritual and attracts energy. To attract this... Read More
In the first part of this article you learned some... Read More
There is a saying that goes something like this: Getting... Read More
The simple action of writing the every day grocery demonstrates... Read More
Champions expect pain, endure pain, and never complain. ---UnknownAfter so... Read More
Human beings are visual creatures. Our imaginations are powerful tools... Read More
Revolution:a sudden, radical, or complete change a fundamental change in... Read More
With three kids, a business, a husband with a business,... Read More
Much has been researched, written and taught about success. One... Read More
Who wants to carry on being a failure?Failure. Not a... Read More
Why do you need to know your focus when joining... Read More
Create an environment that is so inspiring and nurturing that... Read More
One of the common elements you see in almost all... Read More
high-end home cleaning Winnetka ..Energy and persistence conquer all things. - Benjamin FranklinThough Ben... Read More
Creativity can be defined as problem identification and idea generation... Read More
How many of you have ever thought about the link... Read More
Be weary and leery when it comes to standardized tests... Read More
Persistence is the foundation of success. Although there are many... Read More
OK, so here we are. We've switched the calendars out... Read More
The first thing that you need to do is get... Read More
It is often said that the only things in life... Read More
Creating a goal tracking chart is as simple as drawing... Read More
Many people talk or write about the science of success... Read More
Find a higher reason to reach your goal than just... Read More
Most of my clients had a vision of the contribution... Read More
No one wants to fail. But when in business you... Read More
Whenever we have a bad experience or we own up... Read More
Everyone talks about how to be successful through hard work... Read More
Effective listening is almost certainly the most important communication skill,... Read More
The best and fastest way to learn how to make... Read More
Since belief always precedes action, simply changing your beliefs can... Read More
It's not new news. It's not some ethereal theory. It's... Read More
People say: "One can't help one's thoughts." But one can.... Read More
About six years ago I began to study tai chi.... Read More
It happened again in class. While sharing my insights on... Read More
Response means "to answer" and that idea, in its purest... Read More
A Lifelong Learning Plan is a conscious, continuous engagement in... Read More
I recently was made aware of two comparative statistics that... Read More
Success |