(excerpted from the Day That Turns Your Life Around)
After having struggled for so long, it took a shift in attitude for my family and me when success started to happen. When I started making a little extra money at age 25, Schoaf taught me to also let it serve as a new inspiration for lifestyle. To take my family to dinner after I'd had 2 or 3 pretty good weeks and it looked like it was going to continue. I would say, "Today we get to order from only the left hand side of the menu, we don't have to look at the right hand side". Didn't cost much, just a little extra. But you can't believe the effect on the family, wow, that these are new days.
It's called changing your life as well as changing your skills and earning more money. It's best to invest some of that early money in lifestyle. Go to the movies. Take two vacations instead of one. Just some little extra things that now the family gets inspired by this new commitment to earning more and becoming more and learning more, taking some night classes, whatever you have to do. Now you make it more worthwhile for the family by thinking of lifestyle changes that now become very exciting. Go to the concerts. My parents said don't miss anything. Don't miss the play, the music, the songs, the performances, the movie - whatever is happening.
When I started making some extra money I opened up an account for my wife and I called it the "No Questions Asked Account". I said, "here is the checkbook for a new account and it's called no questions asked". I'll just keep putting money in there and you spend it for whatever you wish. It was life changing. It wasn't a fortune. But she didn't have to ask for money any more. I could sense that it was a little embarrassing at times when she had to ask me for money. I thought, that's not good, so the first time I get a chance, here's what I'm going to do. And sure enough, I did it. The "No Questions Asked Account". You can't believe what that did. It was absolutely amazing.
With that little extra money, work at creating lifestyle. Social friendships, church, community, country. All those things that make a composite of our overall life. Start furnishing that with new vigor, vitality, money, whatever it takes to expand your life into what I call the good life as well as economics.
And it doesn't always take a lot of money. How much is a movie? Even for a person of modest means. $8 or $10? It might cost $60 million to make it and it only costs $8 to see it.
When I discovered those kinds of concepts at age 25 you can imagine it was hard for me to sleep nights that first year. I got so excited about changing everything. And one discipline leads to another. One change leads to another. Feeling good about yourself and starting to make the turn to do something you've never done before, then it starts to work, wow, and then you get excited about changing other areas of your life as well.
Now after you have made your fortune, the money and extravagance might not seem as big a deal. And fortunately you can then create even more powerful opportunities, in particular, opportunities for benevolence, philanthropy and giving.
Now I'm certainly not saying to focus only on external pleasures and rewards. Your relationships, health and spirituality are all of more consequence.
But in the beginning, when the rewards of your hard work begin paying off, make sure and treat yourself and those closest to you to a new world of lifestyle and celebrations.
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
Reproduced with permission from Jim Rohn's Weekly E-zine. Copyright 2005 Jim Rohn International. All rights reserved worldwide. To subscribe to Jim Rohn's Weekly E-zine, go to http://jim-rohn.inspiresyou.com
licensed cleaning services Park Ridge ..In a recent article (What is The Ultimate Lifestyle), I... Read More
Is it possible to get rich quick using the power... Read More
We must never allow a day to pass without finding... Read More
Today I am going to tell you the #1 secret... Read More
I'll let you in on a little secret...life delivers pretty... Read More
Reading is an integral part of our daily work lives.... Read More
Recently, I was asked to write a Top 10 list... Read More
I've just sent an email to my mailing list based... Read More
Hello,You are reading this article because you are one of... Read More
Why do some people end up with boring jobs living... Read More
Bank account bare? Bedroom barren? Body running on empty? Buddha... Read More
Bring in the big guns People love to be needed,... Read More
Ask yourself the following:1. I have created a life-strategy plan... Read More
I am sure that you're familiar with the old formula... Read More
Choose a personal theme song and soundtrack that stirs you... Read More
One the most important Self Improvement skills to develop to... Read More
The story that is being used to illustrate the concepts... Read More
Successful people do not achieve success on their own, they... Read More
I could labor the idea but then that would only... Read More
Exercising is not one of my favorite pastimes but I... Read More
I have noticed that though my clients often have created... Read More
Whenever I'm feeling stuck in a rut, I go out... Read More
"Most people don't plan to fail. They just fail to... Read More
They all know it's part of the success journey.They know... Read More
Visualize success, and what you'll do to reward yourself A... Read More
on demand house cleaning Arlington Heights ..Let me ask you a question? What must happen for... Read More
Courage is something that is reflected and reciprocated, and is... Read More
The 90/10 secret is incredible! Very few know and apply... Read More
In this article we mention 7 tips for your success.... Read More
Do you believe that? Do you believe we can all... Read More
The first thing that you need to do is get... Read More
As a work-life and career coach, I regularly work with... Read More
Whenever I ask people this question, "what do you really... Read More
Do you feel like your stuck?No matter what you do,... Read More
We all strive for a 'balanced life'. Although we may... Read More
I've just sent an email to my mailing list based... Read More
By popular request, I thought I would put together this... Read More
Evaluations are a tremendous resource to help us know where... Read More
They say that if you really want to stretch yourself... Read More
Whoever first said that knowledge is power was probably selling... Read More
I received an advanced copy of a book called How... Read More
Have you ever had such thoughts like "I always fall... Read More
You have been preparing for months. You are in position... Read More
The fastest way to succeeding in anything, be it online... Read More
Visualize success, and what you'll do to reward yourself A... Read More
Do you remember when you were a child and no... Read More
Recently, I have been riveted by the amazing reality show... Read More
To make change effective, you have to BE what you... Read More
I remember, about 35 years ago, reading two books by... Read More
This article is about a subject that few people think... Read More
Success |