My work often deals with proactive, preventive means to Overcome Overwhelm & Achieve Your Desired Results. During our transitions, overwhelm can still come up from time to time, so we need to have the tools to stop stress and overwhelm quickly when it does arise.
The key to halting stress and overwhelm in its tracks is to initiate a positive action as soon as possible. Often if we focus only on what's going on in our heads without acting, we can end up encouraging overwhelm to grow. Here are some ways I have found successful - sometimes on their own, and sometimes all five stacked together.
Five Steps to Stopping Stress and Overwhelm Quickly!
1. Watch the self-talk.
Sometimes you may need to say to yourself, "this is only temporary" and focus on the task at hand.
2. Write down what is overwhelming you in a short succinct statement(s).
Do this quickly - don't spend a lot of time on it. This step is designed to clear your mind of the overwhelm topic because the situation is now written down and you can review it later.
3. Do something physical that is positive for you.
For instance, go for a power walk or take a refreshing shower. If you are hungry, eat some small, healthy choice, such as a piece of fruit or cheese. This step may help you distance yourself from the emotional charge of the overwhelm situation.
4. Have a drink of clear water.
Make sure you're hydrated.
5. Decide how to deal with the topic that overwhelmed you.
Do this by writing in a journal or talking it out with a trusted friend or coach. Often the overwhelm situation has to do with what you are going to do next - so write down all your main options. This will take everything from your head and put it into a logical, visual, objective list. To decide which item to address first, perhaps the following will help:
?If you are tired, pick one that doesn't require a lot of brain power, or have a short nap to refresh yourself.
?Pick one that will provide quick results and raise your self-confidence.
?Decide what would benefit you the most and make this item a priority. Which item will best help you to move towards your goals?
?Determine which items on the list can be left or delayed.
Spend a very short period of time on this (less than 15 minutes) to avoid belaboring the topic so much that you end up back in overwhelm. If it's difficult to make a choice, the following works well with me, "Pick one, ANY one, Get it done" and then move on to the next. Often all of the options need to get done in a short period of time and results for ANY of them are highly desirable.
Copyright 2004 Donna P. Lendzyk
Donna P. Lendzyk is a professional coach and creator of the Overcome Overwhelm System. She coaches businesswomen to "Overcome Overwhelm and Achieve Their Desired Results." She is the author of the multi-media "Overcome Overwhelm eProgram." To learn more about her eProgram and sign up for more FREE tips like these, visit her website at http://www.overcomeoverwhelm.com
tidy up service Glenview ..Managing stress is not easy if you don't have the... Read More
Understanding StressStress has been called "the invisible disease". It is... Read More
Shit happens. I know this to be a fact, because... Read More
Work related tensions, personal issues and abnormal lifestyles are the... Read More
Rhodiola Rosea is the latest natural remedy to join the... Read More
The fall season signals a shift in most people's minds.... Read More
Are You Too Stressed?Is your stomach all tied up in... Read More
Many of my readers write to me about the tensions... Read More
If you have never tried combining your breathing exercises with... Read More
There are many kinds of daily grinds. In the U.S.... Read More
Writing down our thoughts and feelings, as in keeping a... Read More
Statistics tell us that more people have migraine headaches on... Read More
Author and speaker H. Stephen Glenn has said,"In terms of... Read More
Here's a fun little experiment:Take a few seconds and look... Read More
When it is all said and done, do you feel... Read More
Did you know that more than half of our adult... Read More
WHAT THE RESEARCH SAYSExperts in the stress management field have... Read More
When I pay attention, I clearly see the arresting ways... Read More
A stressless lifestyle? That's very easy to say. Yet it... Read More
This is the time for daydreaming about your annual vacation.... Read More
Q: Someone told me that the Chinese symbol for crisis... Read More
Do you attack problems and solve them or do you... Read More
Statistics show that all of us experience stress at one... Read More
File this one under the category of "watch your language."The... Read More
In my experience, most of us spend a lot more... Read More
maid service near Winnetka ..?And holding it way down inside you like an old... Read More
Recently the well known American news anchor Peter Jennings died... Read More
Have you ever noticed what occurs when you are suddenly... Read More
Where does stress really come from? Is there any simple... Read More
Have you recently moved or started a new job? Do... Read More
When it is all said and done, do you feel... Read More
You can learn a lot by watching children playing. There... Read More
Most humans experience unexpected setbacks which can cause huge stress... Read More
Do you get out of your car with a queasy... Read More
You probably think I'm wacko, but it's true - stress... Read More
Adversity is an unavoidable part of life. Death of a... Read More
All stress comes from believing a thought that argues with... Read More
Life can offer us many challenges having to do with... Read More
As tools for change are discussed, one tool - that... Read More
1. Determine your "unique ability" and capitalize on itDelegate the... Read More
In my experience, most of us spend a lot more... Read More
There may be so much you want to change in... Read More
Seems like more and more they are all around us.... Read More
Everyone needs successful stress management techniques. Easy to learn and... Read More
Punch a pillowScream into a pillowTurn on your favorite music... Read More
Looking for all of the answers in how to manage... Read More
Have you been feeling so stressful and almost losing your... Read More
I once worked with a woman whose zest,joy and enthusiasm... Read More
If you find symptoms of anxiety disorder in any of... Read More
I came out of a nightmare 5-year period of anxiety... Read More
Stress Management |