Exercising is not one of my favorite pastimes but I know it's good for me. So every day I try to get outside and take a 2-mile walk. Most days I carry a small notebook and pen with me so that I can jot down the random brilliant thoughts that come to me as I stroll around the neighborhood.
A few weeks ago I was rounding a corner about half way through my walk and noticed a nickel in the road. I adjusted my gait so that I stepped on the shiny coin and kept walking.
Within a few steps I started thinking of my daughter who always stops to pick up loose change. She wouldn't have passed this one by. I was half tempted to turn around and go back for it, but I thought it would be embarrassing if someone happened to see me stooping down to pick up a nickel.
It didn't take long for me to transition my thoughts from that nickel to those small opportunities that have been in front of me that I've stepped on or passed by. How many have I overlooked because I thought they were insignificant? How many have I been too embarrassed to attempt? How many have I stepped on because I wanted to show the world they were unworthy of my attention?
Later that day I told my daughter about the nickel incident because it was continued to weigh on my mind. She didn't say, "Don't worry about it. It was only a nickel." She did say, "I would have picked it up. Did you know that one day at school I found over a dollar in change on the floor?"
She had taken advantage of seemingly small opportunities. But when added up, they became something worthwhile. In my daughter's case, she was able to buy a can of soda from the vending machine at school-something she wouldn't have been able to do otherwise.
The next morning I paid attention as I walked that same stretch of road. I was determined to pick up that nickel if I saw it again. But alas, it was gone. Not surprising I guess. Someone else is usually willing to take advantage of the opportunities that others choose to pass by. Unfortunately by the time I decided to take advantage of it, the opportunity was no longer there.
Of course not every opportunity is one that I want to stop and pick up. Some merely resemble something that would help me achieve my goals in life, the way that bottle caps, from a distance, look a lot like coins. But some we recognize immediately as worthwhile yet we still choose to walk by them.
Since the day I walked past that nickel in the road, I've been more attuned to opportunities that surround me. I've been paying attention to my response to them. Instead of quickly discounting the ones that appear to be small payoffs, I'm looking at the bigger picture. What can a small opportunity add to what I already have going on? How can a small opportunity serve as the beginning of something bigger?
What a great life lesson! And it only cost me a nickel.
Copyright 2005 Donna Doyon. All rights reserved. You are free to reprint this story as long as you include complete attribution, including a live web site link.
The attribution should read:
By Donna Doyon, author of GLOW: Renew Your Spirit and Release Your Inner Beauty. Please visit Donna's web site at http://www.donnadoyon.com/ for information on how you can say "goodbye" to self-defeating attitudes and behaviors and "hello" to a more successful, balanced, and joy-filled life!'
Donna Doyon, Activities Coordinator for Your Virtual Retreat is the author of GLOW: Renew Your Spirit & Release Your Inner Beauty. She offers information, inspiration and encouragement to people who want to say goodbye to self defeating attitudes and behaviors and hello to greater success, healthier relationships and more joyful living. Get inspired at her website: http://www.donnadoyon.com
shuttle to Midway Beardstown .. Lockport Chicago limo O’Hare"I am the greatest warrior. I have fought with gods... Read More
"Nothing in this world can take the place of persistence.... Read More
Delegate your life If you're having problems finding the time... Read More
Sometimes success is found through the things that you don't... Read More
A farmer in Pennsylvania decided to sell his farm, but... Read More
Plants of all kinds (including trees), herbs and roots have... Read More
Overnight success seems to be happening to a lot of... Read More
Thomas Edison has done it. Naomi Watts often jokes about... Read More
It was one of the worst periods of time in... Read More
Success is the most desired ambition of the human beings.... Read More
"If you can tell the world who you are and... Read More
"If you want to increase your success rate, double your... Read More
Walt Disney coined a special phrase for persistence and determination;... Read More
We all want success in life. We want success in... Read More
A Lifelong Learning Plan is a conscious, continuous engagement in... Read More
What would happen if you lived your life by design... Read More
Ask yourself the following:1. I have created a life-strategy plan... Read More
"Don't get caught up in the how of things. If... Read More
All work and no play makes Johnny a dull boy... Read More
The present model of business and career motivation, the one... Read More
The start of a new year is a good time... Read More
If you have a choice each day in the tasks... Read More
Everything we have in life is because of the help... Read More
Consider what it takes to become an undeniable success with... Read More
You must understand You are already a Success, and before... Read More
Green Bay Hummer H2 SUV rentals ..The 90/10 secret is incredible! Very few know and apply... Read More
"Most people don't plan to fail. They just fail to... Read More
Successful people do not achieve success on their own, they... Read More
Often, what people say about other people behind their backs... Read More
To realize that you determine the outcome of your own... Read More
I was hired to do some training for a sales... Read More
If you are wishy-washy and undecided about you want and... Read More
Work addiction is an unrestrained, unfulfillable internal demand for constant... Read More
When traveling down the road it is always good to... Read More
All work and no play makes Johnny a dull boy... Read More
Have you ever wondered if there was a way to... Read More
My mentor, when I was 25 years old, dropped a... Read More
Reading is an integral part of our daily work lives.... Read More
Howdy folks, today I would like to speak to you... Read More
Our expectations get us into a lot of trouble and... Read More
Identity theft!We've all seen them. The commercials use the voices... Read More
This summer (2005) huge crowds in England and Australia have... Read More
When entering second adulthood, many women will begin a journey... Read More
Q: Are you a success?A: Its all in how you... Read More
One of my absolute favorite quotes is from Dwight D.... Read More
What if?you could have it all? 6 Steps to Living... Read More
Did you know that your past, present, and future can... Read More
Do you sometimes feel that you're living a boring life?... Read More
Want to make success a habit in your life? If... Read More
"If you think you can or you think you can't... Read More
Success |