?And holding it way down inside you like an old sponge? Be careful. Just like an old sponge that's held its liquid a little too long, we may start to get stinky in a day or two. I'm referring to "soaking up" all that wonderful information that comes to us mainly through our televisions, radios and computers. Information that is then refortified and nourished through conversations with our friends or relatives.
It's unfortunately a fact of life. Every minute of every day, the media presents "news" that is frequently disturbing. Coverage of terrorist acts, wars, airline crashes, natural disasters ? all kinds of information that show, sometimes in graphic detail, the tragic events of our world and the how they are impacting the lives of our fellow man. As I write this, the TV is blanketed with video footage, stories, commentary, interviews and speculation related to the aftermath of hurricane Katrina. The devastation is truly mind-boggling.
Here's the problem. Many of us humans have a tendency to become over-focused on these events. For some strange reason, beyond a reasonable desire to be informed, we find ourselves sitting in front of our televisions or our computers viewing, listening to and reading everything we can about the current "terrible event". We are "soakin' it up"!
The unfortunate result is that we soon start to feel the negative emotions associated with our current focus. Don't get me wrong. It's normal ? and good ? to empathize ? to feel compassion toward those people who are experiencing tough times. That's just a nice expression of our love toward our fellow man. It's not good for us personally however, to dwell on the negatives ? to continually shove this stuff into our little brains to ferment into mind sludge. Whether we consciously realize it or not, it won't take long for our bodies to respond to this mental goo. We may find that we're not feeling quite as well as we did a few days ago. We may find it harder to deal with the pressures of our personal lives. We may notice that our patience level has dropped somewhat ? that we're now kind of cranky and out of sorts. Whatever the effect, it's our body's normal reaction to a bombardment of negatives.
So here's a suggestion. If you find that you've been spending a lot of time in front of your TV or computer soaking up negatives - and you are having a tendency to "feel" the emotions associated with this mental input, take a break from it. Switch to the cartoon channel, watch a comedy video, take a walk, bathe the dog, read a book, work on your stamp collection, play with your kids, mow the lawn, go to the mall ? anything that will divert your attention away from the yucky stuff and more toward those things you enjoy doing. Give your mind a healing dose of positives. Trust me ? you'll feel better?
Gene Simmons, through NuPathz.com, provides an easy reading self-help blog, articles, quotations, thoughts and links along with affordable self-help and self improvement books & materials - all designed to help folks find the road to a more enjoyable lifestyle, to pass on some of life's "secrets for survival" in a chaotic world & offer a few smiles along the way. It's a down-to-earth, simple approach to discovering a better life. You can visit Gene at http://www.nupathz.com/
recurring cleaning service Mundelein ...Work related tensions, personal issues and abnormal lifestyles are the... Read More
Feeling stressed? Who isn't!! In today's society, feeling "stressed out,"... Read More
Q. Help! I moved from the Dallas to Denver. I... Read More
Voice: Bill!Bill: I thought I heard a voice.Voice: Bill! This... Read More
Shit happens. I know this to be a fact, because... Read More
Are you a person who has a keen imagination, a... Read More
First, let's make a distinction between pressure and stress. We... Read More
Learn to have healthy relationships:This subject could fill an entire... Read More
You probably think I'm wacko, but it's true - stress... Read More
Defending your point of view can use up a lot... Read More
The World Health Organization calls stress "the health epidemic of... Read More
Quote of the week"Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication." Leonardo da... Read More
How much attention is paid to one of the biggest... Read More
Have you recently moved or started a new job? Do... Read More
My first real job (schedule, time clock, paycheck, boss) was... Read More
Adversity is an unavoidable part of life. Death of a... Read More
According to the StressPulse survey by ComPsych Corporation completed at... Read More
Stress is more than just unpleasant. It's dangerous. Try these... Read More
Elizabeth, 32, cried during anger management class as she told... Read More
We all know what it feels like to have our... Read More
I hear from many people that they see ever increasing... Read More
Stress, America's #1 health problem, is a leading cause of... Read More
Are you a "worry wart?" Is that term familiar to... Read More
At what age does the benefit of play cease? Child... Read More
Stress management is a hot topic; stress-related illness and suffering... Read More
deep house cleaning Arlington Heights ...All stress comes from believing a thought that argues with... Read More
I love a good story and I know I'm not... Read More
What is Stress?Stress may be defined as the three-way relationship... Read More
Among the hardest parts of living in the modern world... Read More
In his book, The 22 Non-Negotiable Laws of Wellness, author... Read More
"I'm stressed out."If you find yourself thinking--or saying--this on a... Read More
First, let's make a distinction between pressure and stress. We... Read More
Today's workplace produces plenty of stress. Life's little hassles mount... Read More
Take a moment to think about the week that just... Read More
Genuine enthusiasm...real feeling of accomplishment...sense of satisfaction and fun. Welcome... Read More
Stress affects different people in different ways, but affect them... Read More
Do you get frustrated with your spouse, your kids, your... Read More
The day wasn't going well already. You know how it... Read More
How much attention is paid to one of the biggest... Read More
Have you ever noticed how we keep falling into the... Read More
Why Stress Management programmes don't work?It seems that every week... Read More
Quote of the week"Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication." Leonardo da... Read More
1) Create the life you desireTwo of our most underdeveloped... Read More
Positive self-esteem is very important for our general health and... Read More
Everyone knows that stress isn't good - that it can... Read More
26 ways to minimize and manage the unhealthy effects of... Read More
As tools for change are discussed, one tool - that... Read More
Success in recovery, or rather, staying in recovery, is dependent... Read More
It is very true that, unfortunately, many people look to... Read More
When was the last time that you truly took a... Read More
Stress Management |