There is one sure fire medicine that cures all difficulty and opens the way for your greatest good. It allows you to sleep well at night, wake up refreshed and filled with enthusiasm. Obstacles evaporate and wonderful possibilities appear. This medicine is abundantly available, has no side effects, can be taken in large or small doses regularly. You need no one to prescribe it and the more you take, the sweeter it is. The medicine is a good dose of gratitude, taken daily, at least three times a day.
For example, if you are having difficulty in your relationships, a strong dose of gratitude will help a lot. Depression and thankfulness cannot exist in the same mind at the same time. When you are continually aware of the good you are receiving, complaints, resentments and demands become a thing of the past.
As we go through our day it is easy to focus upon what is wrong ? when things do not go our way, we become upset, criticize others, demand what we want and sometimes even start to push others around.
Very few stop right where they are and begin to think of what is going right, what they have to appreciate and then offering thanks. But the very best medicine for stress is a grateful mind. Here are some simple steps to take a dose of gratitude today.
Step 1: When stressed, immediately stop and see what is going right today.
The more stress we feel, the more we find things wrong. We can nip this at the bud and begin to consciously look and see what is good about the day. By taking your attention off the negativity, you are taking the energy and power away from it. As you change your focus you change your life.
Step 2: Give thanks
Make a list of each person in your life you have to thank for something. Then, stop, take a few minutes, call one person and offer thanks. Offering thanks is powerful. We forget about ourselves and think of the other. Not only is it uplifting to be in touch with them again, but the fact that we've focused upon giving to them and offered thanks to them, will turn your day around. (And theirs as well).
Step 3: See a problem person in a new way.
Usually, when we are stressed, we feel some person is causing to it. Find something valuable about the person who is bothering you. Remember the times they helped you, or cared for you. Think of ways they've made a contribution. Realize that your upset belongs to you, it is not necessarily because of them. Let them be who they are. Realize they are doing the best they can.
Cc/author/2005
This article is based upon Dr. Brenda Shoshanna's new book Living By Zen (Timeless Truths for Everyday Life), http://www.livingbyzen.com Dr. Shoshanna is a psychologist, therapist in practice for over 25 years, a speaker, author and long term Zen practitioner. Her work integrates Zen and everyday life. The relationship expert on i.village.com, she is the author of She is also the author of Zen Miracles (Finding Peace In An Insane World), Zen And The Art Of Falling In Love, (Simon and Schuster) and many other books. She can be contacted at http://www.livingbyzen.com. Personal website is http://www.livingbyzen.com
scheduled maid service Glenview ...WHAT THE RESEARCH SAYSExperts in the stress management field have... Read More
"Learn how to turn frustration into fascination. You will learn... Read More
The future is nothing but a fantasy or a daydream,... Read More
What would you say if I told you I know... Read More
ExcusesWe all have them. It amazes me how creative I... Read More
It's no secret that we women, by virtue of our... Read More
1. The Law of EveryoneIt is not neccessarily wrong to... Read More
"Watch your language."We all heard this admonition as kids and... Read More
File this one under the category of "watch your language."The... Read More
What is the greatest fear of man? Is it death?... Read More
Do you feel stress at work? Do you carry your... Read More
Everyday can be full of stress but we all deserve... Read More
You can learn a lot by watching children playing. There... Read More
Do you get frustrated with your spouse, your kids, your... Read More
Mark Twain once said, "It's not what we don't know... Read More
Work related tensions, personal issues and abnormal lifestyles are the... Read More
When I pay attention, I clearly see the arresting ways... Read More
Stress is an interpretation of an event or circumstance which... Read More
Have you ever listened to someone, perhaps even to your... Read More
Everyone needs successful stress management techniques. Easy to learn and... Read More
Do you have stress in your life?......I know you answered... Read More
1. The Mentor Method: think of your favorite person. Someone... Read More
Governements and businesses have regularly highlighted the costs of stress... Read More
Most people know of the importance of exercise as a... Read More
Every woman needs her own personal space for relaxation, not... Read More
spotless home service Highland Park ...What would you say if I told you I know... Read More
In our article about Exercise & Stress, we looked at... Read More
Take a moment to think about the week that just... Read More
In his book, The 22 Non-Negotiable Laws of Wellness, author... Read More
With how busy we keep ourselves on a day to... Read More
Recently the well known American news anchor Peter Jennings died... Read More
Q: What is Stress?A: Very basically it is the physical,... Read More
Think back a few years to the nine coal miners... Read More
When a great Zen Master returned to his country after... Read More
This summer, get away, without going away. Take a mini... Read More
If you have never tried combining your breathing exercises with... Read More
What is Stress?Stress may be defined as the three-way relationship... Read More
"Do you want to be a lump of coal or... Read More
It has long been suggested that "music soothes the savage... Read More
In my experience, most of us spend a lot more... Read More
We function at our best when we are free from... Read More
Amazing thing, overwhelm!You don't usually see it coming. It just... Read More
Q. I've been told that I need to learn from... Read More
Is your stress level higher than it should be? Are... Read More
No this is not related to praying, this is how... Read More
The future is nothing but a fantasy or a daydream,... Read More
Stress seems to have become a constant factor in today's... Read More
It is very true that, unfortunately, many people look to... Read More
I hope by reading this article you will see the... Read More
Q: "My career, though very very stressful, is one that... Read More
Stress Management |