Many UK citizens want to settle or retire in Spain the land of sun, healthy food, villas and blue swimming pools. Only a few of these actually achieve their dream. What makes the difference?
Those who succeed can teach the rest of us a lot about courage, determination, drive and self-respect. They also teach the power of a dream and the power of taking action to achieve it.
Louise Mariott, at the age of 38, went off to Spain with her three daughters and without financial help from anyone including their fathers.
Louise is a beauty expert who beautifies the beautiful (both men and women) but she needed to make money fast. Money was going out but very little was coming in.
If the worst came to the worst, she would have to return home in a few months to live with her parents but she did not plan to do that:
"I have more self-respect and more drive. How many women would have come out to Spain with no help and three kids?"
She had no regrets about her move to Marbella. The family oriented life style suited her. The food was healthy and she loved the Spanish people. She commented:
"I won't be lying on my death bed saying I wish I had done that."
Louise eventually found a partner, Nancy, who is a fashion adviser and she also found a location for a salon.
There were problems but she was excited by the possibilities. She kept her dream in mind.
The salon was called "Posh". This logo was placed on the side of her new car. Louise also planned to market by word of mouth and a few fliers.
However, few plans reach completion without a lot of hassle. At one point, Louise was feeling so stressed that she said that POSH stood for "Peed Off Stressed and Hormonal." At least she had kept her sense of humour.
Cards arrived saying "We are so happy that your dreams are coming true."
At the time, they seemed to be mocking the dire situation she was in.
Despite all the stress and tension, hundreds of people showed up to the opening of "POSH". Her business had got off to a great start.
Louise could comment:
"Now my dream has come true!"
Sarah, an estate agent, provides us with another role model. At the age of 7, Sarah wrote in her exercise book:
"My name is Sarah and I want to live in a white house in Spain."
She was already, at a very early age, using the power of setting and visualising goals clearly. She is now living this dream. At 26, she has a successful business with a partner.
She has a lifestyle of parties, swimming and the freedom not to worry about the weather or crime. She finds that people in Spain are much more relaxed and can enjoy their lives.
Probably the key to her success is knowing clearly what she wanted at the age of seven.
Many people never stop to think deeply about what they really want from life until they reach the age of 70.
If you are 70 it is not too late. Imagine yourself at 80 wishing you had started to achieve you're dream at 70. As you are still 70 what is stopping you?
About the author
John Watson is an award winning teacher and martial arts instructor. He has recently written two books about achieving your goals and dreams.
They can both be found on his website http://www.motivationtoday.com along with a daily motivational message.
The title of the first book is "36 Laws To Ignite Your Inner Power And Realize Your Dreams Now! - Acronyms, Stories, And Pictures...Easy To Remember And Use Everyday To Grab Your Life And Soar With The Eagles"
The book can be found at this URL
http://www.motivationtoday.com
The book uses acronyms, stories and pictures to help readers remember 36 laws that can gradually transform your life if you apply them.
Ezine editors / Site owners.
Feel free to reprint this article in its entirety in your ezine or on your site as long as you leave all links in place, do not modify the content and include my resource box as listed above.
kitchen deep cleaning Northbrook ...What do Sam Walton, Ray Kroc, Hilton, Marriot, Firestone, Elvis... Read More
It happened again in class. While sharing my insights on... Read More
The 2004 final of the World's Strongest Man METRx Championship... Read More
Fourteen thousand civilised people died when the tsunami hit Andaman... Read More
Clown around Among the Plains Indians, heyoka, or sacred clowns,... Read More
It is high time you know the truth about yourselves.... Read More
Step 1: List all the business activities that you complete... Read More
I want to relate to you a story, READ it... Read More
Success starts in your mind. Positive Thinking creates the advantage.Success... Read More
After all the things I have shared with you this... Read More
Most dictionary entries would define failure as the simple lack... Read More
If you were to evaluate the major influences in your... Read More
Hope you're having a GREAT Day!Last night I was reading... Read More
Dare to Dream~It is said that every person has at... Read More
If you want to be successful in life, business, or... Read More
Does your life feel less than fulfilling? Are you waiting... Read More
"Never, never, never give up; never give up, never!." -... Read More
I used to see a chiropractor who handed out a... Read More
I can tell, with 95% accuracy, if you are going... Read More
Did you know that your past, present, and future can... Read More
Delegate your life If you're having problems finding the time... Read More
(Excerpted From The Jim Rohn One-Year Success Plan - Pillar... Read More
There have been a lot of really good movies made... Read More
If you are sick and tired of the dreaming phase... Read More
Response means "to answer" and that idea, in its purest... Read More
local house cleaners Buffalo Grove ...There's always a first time to meeting people. We want... Read More
Let me tell you story about a friend of mine... Read More
Many people, it seems, have a fear of money. Does... Read More
Everything we have in life is because of the help... Read More
The TRUE BMI of SUCCESS (B)e a (M)illionaire (I)ndexWhy am... Read More
The most under rated method to achieve success is: The... Read More
Choose a personal theme song and soundtrack that stirs you... Read More
Back from my amazing summer excursion, a month long drive... Read More
Wealthy people share common traits. That's why they are wealthy.... Read More
-- The One Pager Shortcut Series --What are the sharpest... Read More
Are there any universal laws that most successful people seem... Read More
Have you ever noticed when playing a video game, or... Read More
Success is not something that only a chosen few can... Read More
In this article we mention 7 tips for your success.... Read More
Many people ask me how they can be more successful.The... Read More
If we are involved in a project, how hard should... Read More
You talked but didn't get a response. You talked but... Read More
"One important key to success is self-confidence. An important key... Read More
Each and every day, there are people all around the... Read More
Want more success in your business or professional life? Here's... Read More
Find a higher reason to reach your goal than just... Read More
The ability to make good decisions is an essential step... Read More
Well I'll tell you what it's not. Even thought many... Read More
Driven by cultural imperatives and inner promptings, we drive ourselves... Read More
Think back to a time in your life when you... Read More
Success |